February 5, 2012

Take _________ Out of Christmas

As Americans living in a foreign country with access to American media via both television and the Internet, we sometimes wonder if we have an accurate picture of what is taking place at home. Perhaps we can more accurately assess things because we are more detached. But perhaps we don’t have all the information, or balanced information, thus our assessments may not be always on the money. It was definitely interesting to observe an election from the outside for the first time.

Those who are astute, probably saw the previous paragraph for what it was: a disclaimer; not about the election, but about our ability to assess things accurately. That said, this is my observation: as the world increasingly wants to separate itself from things Christian, we as Christians want to increasingly try to reign them back in. Renee’, what in the world are you talking about now? No, I’m not just rambling as I wait for the pizza dough to rise. I do have a point.

I see and hear people talking about the need to “Keep Christ in Christmas.” As more and more places of secular employment move from “Merry Christmas” to “Happy Holidays” and as our cities are allowed to put up “Holiday trees” instead of “Christmas trees,” I understand the frustrations.

However, I can’t help but wonder if the issue isn’t that we are insisting on non-believers keeping Christ in Christmas. Perhaps we need to address what we as believers take out of Christmas. We know that the Holidays are becoming increasingly secularized. Could the reason be because those of us who profess to follow Christ have allowed the secular in first? Perhaps we need to ask ourselves: what is the most important thing about Christmas for us? If we answer “Christ”, we must honestly assess how we spend our holidays and ask if that is what others see in us. It is so easy to allow other things to be most important. Obviously, that includes gifts and material things. Could it be the food? Family? Traditions? Sentimentality?

Our family deliberately never celebrated Santa Claus for this reason. There can only be one center, and we knew we would never be able to keep Christ there with Santa around. That is what we had to take out in order for Christ to be where He ought to be during the Holidays. I invite you to join me in asking God if there is anything in our lives that needs to go — “Take ________ out of Christmas.” Only then can Christ truly be the center.

Anderson Christmas Letter

Here is our annual Christmas Letter. Please feel free to download and distribute as you see fit. We usually don’t send out a “news”letter at Christmas time, since you can usually read about the Anderson “news” here on this website, or through other newsletters. This is more of our current reflections regarding the season, and our wishes to all of you for a blessed holiday.

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Have a blessed Christmas!

Happy Reunions, Joyous Fellowship

Last Sunday we had the opportunity to spend some time with new and old friends at Faith Community Church, our church home. It was a blessing to see so many friends. We reminisced and had the privilege to share our current life and ministry in Mongolia.

Below is the original group of folks that we joined with in 1993 to “restart” the Franklin church.

FCC Reunion w/o kids

Of course, at the time Jonathan was only a year old and our friends John and Darlena Fox’s son Jarod was about 6 or 7 and their daughter Emily was a newborn. None of the other folks in the picture above had children. Of course that’s changed somewhat since then.

FCC Reunion with kids

Finally, here is a shot of our family with David and Natanya Yoder and their family. David has taken on the job I used to have, pastoring the church in Franklin. We’re happy to be in joyous fellowship with Pastor Yoder, and look forward to years of working together – although on different continents, we serve the same purpose.

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My 10 Things

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As of November 1, 2008 I am 41. Typically my birthday/holiday season is a catalyst for a time of reflection for me. I don’t know exactly why that is. Perhaps my upbringing. Perhaps some obscure sense of obligation to reflect during the holidays. I am sure that there is no reason to avoid mid-year, fourth-of-July seasonal reflection, as well. It just tends to come most naturally for me from November to December.

This year I am thinking about all of the things that I’d really like to do over the next months and year – and some lamenting over the realities of life that will most likely keep me from accomplishing all of them. However, in my lamentations I have been smacked in the mouth from a couple of unexpected sources.

1. This blog entry (along with this one) from Merlin Mann’s 43-folders. For our more sensitive readers, I’ll forewarn you that Merlin can have a bit of a potty mouth. On the other hand, I really appreciate the shift that he’s taking on his web site. It’s too easy to sit around lamenting (like I was) and wile away hours looking for ‘tips and tricks’ and ‘lifehacks’ and all kinds of other time-wasters, instead of actually writing, or editing or running or playing. The real work of learning how to make cool stuff involves a process of making some really bad stuff. It’s how we learn. On more than one level, through pain (whether the pain of life or the pain of making stuff that looks like garbage) we grow and learn. Like it or not, that’s God’s intention. So I need to embrace it … and get to work.

2. Another place that I’ve been helped greatly is a recent series of blog posts from CJ Mahaney’s ‘view from the cheap seats’. His words regarding busyness and laziness are helpful and convicting. The bottom line and elemental issue with time management, productivity and the battle against laziness is the Gospel. CJ does a fantastic job bringing the peripheral issues to the ultimate issue: Christ died and rose again to defeat sin … including the sin or procrastination and laziness.

So through this holiday season, while we are Stateside, I am going to work at defeating the sin of procrastination and laziness through the work of Christ – and by dealing with those issues openly and in a ‘head-on’ manner.

In light of that, here are 10 things that I would like to do or learn how to do, but have been too much of a sluggard to either start or to complete (or that I have been too much of a coward to go through the pain of creating the cruddy stuff required to complete the process of learning to make something really good):

1. Make really good videos
2. Take really good pictures
3. Write a book that will be a Missions Mobilization resource geared for US pastors (and give it away for free)
4. Learn CSS and XHTML (in at least a basic level)
5. Run a half-marathon (and/or a whole marathon)
6. Create JHudsonTaylor.org
7. Learn Old Mongolian Script
8. Learn Final Cut Express … well
9. Learn to use the Panasonic DVX-100a camera … well
10. Have the ability to pray and to teach the Bible in Mongolian

I am sure this is not a horribly interesting blog post for many. But it’s one I needed to write and publish. It helps me to see this list, and then begin to think and pray about what actions I need to take in order to make these things happen. If, perchance, this does grab your attention, I would be interested in hearing your list, as well.

Bursting Radiators and Sopping-Wet Expectations

I didn’t know at the time how much I would need the reminder. I thought it was a timely word for the youth devotional. The message was a comparison of Mary and Zacharius. When Mary received word from the angel that she would be giving birth to the Messiah, her question was understandable. “How can this be?” Zacharius received a similar message. He asked a similar question: “How shall I know this?” They both received an answer, but Zacharius was unable to speak until the birth of his son. Mary received no such discipline. The difference: Mary believed and was asking for understanding. Zacharius didn’t believe.

When the phone call came today, it wasn’t just any ordinary Saturday. It was Cori’s birthday and in less than an hour, she would have friends arriving. Not only was the pizza not finished, but I didn’t even have her cake in the oven. Never have I been so unprepared for one of my children’s birthdays. To top it all off, I just wanted to go to bed. I have somehow managed to come down with four different ailments at once (which I won’t go into). So just finishing this task would take more energy than I really had.

Ah, but that’s not all. I had promised Jonathan two weeks ago, that we would host a Christmas Open House (okay, I confess, I love it – normally). Because I’ve been sick, I haven’t been able to do any advance preparations. So that is ahead. And sometime in the next 48 hours I had to finish laundry (without a dryer, remember) and pack, while leaving a clean house for the two Mongolian girls who will be staying here with Sadie.

As soon as I heard the ring, I thought to myself, “We can’t do anything else.” The Mongolian lady started talking to Bernie about the center and water. This would be the place to tell you that after months of renovations and endless shopping trips, the UB Student Center officially opened last night. This past week had gone so well. After the initial trips when we couldn’t find anything that worked, things were falling in place, right down to the cups with sheaves of wheat and the thermoses that matched the wallpaper. Bernie and Onon and I were so pleased to see the fruit of all our weeks of work. A lovely, peaceful place was finally ready for students to come and find a quiet place to study. Then next month, when we arrive back from the US, we could start scheduling events.

We knew that the heater in the front room had been leaking, so Bernie finished what he was doing and grabbed a few towels, expecting to go wipe up some water. He never dreamed he would open the front door and walk into a sauna. The radiator, heated by scalding hot water had burst in the middle of the night and was spraying water into the room. It was literally raining in the room from the steam that would condensate on the ceiling. The walls were wet. The furniture that we spent hours shopping for and having built was wet. Everything was wet.

With the help of teammates, Dennis and Eric, Bernie and Onon spent the next couple of hours cleaning and assessing the damage. The floors that Bernie has labored so long on will have to be redone. The ceilings that Soggi had painted for us will have to be repainted. We are hopeful that the wallpaper will not have to be replaced. Bernie’s guitar is fine (Hallelujah!) but we don’t know yet about the keyboard. The new rug is wet, but should dry, as we hope will the upholstered chairs. We believe that the wood furniture will still be usuable.

So, human nature automatically calls up the question: “Why did this happen?” and even, “Why, God, did You allow this to happen?” The question is not wrong — as long as the heart believes. We have the opportunity to choose to believe that God is on His throne. He was not taken by surprised. He was not out-maneuvered by our enemy who seeks to kill, steal and destroy. He chose to trust us to trust Him. To know that He is more than able to work this for good and for the glory of His kingdom. We’re not sure how or when. We don’t even know if we will ever be able to say, “Oh, this is why God allowed that to happen.” What we do know is that by His grace we as a team give thanks – not for the mess, but for the God Who is able to triumph in spite of the mess. We give thanks for timely words from Scripture that are there before we know we will need them. And most of all, this Christmas, we give thanks because He is Immanuel, God with us – even in a sopping wet Student Center.

10 Year Anniversary in Darhan

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